A Simple Fun Notes

First Night Sex..??? Mungkin sebagian orang ngerasa tabu atau malu untuk ngomongin kayak gini. Sebenernya sih malu-malu tapi mau….Tapi karena terdorong obrolan di email ma temen-temen jadi gw kepikiran deh buat posting artikelnya. Gara-garanya sih gw dikirimin email berantai tuh ma Ika, judulnya “Cry but still dance” nyeritain ada sekelompok anak kecil yang lagi pentas tari (boys n girls) eh tiba2 ada anak yang nangis..tapi tetep nari dan gerakannya ga salah…trus karena topinya lepas, gurunya ngebenerin tuh topi..eh malah masih nangis..tersedu2 lg…nah dari situ deh suara pembaca (reply2 email) dimulai. Kristy nanya “knapa tuh anak ampe nangis..??”..trus kita saling ngasih komen deh..ada yang ngasih komen itu lah…ini lah…tp komen Nadia tuh yang ga nyambung pisan…masa dia bilang “Gw juga pernah Kebetulan gw dapet artikel singkat berupa Q/A dalam bahasa Inggris (sengaja, biar ga terlalu vulgar ), jadi lumayan lah buat temen gw yang blom pada marriage, Ika n Diana..Buat Ika n Diana….ini artikel perdana “all about sex” tunggu artikel selanjutnya yach…First Night Sex

Q. Is Pre-Marital sex counseling important?
A. Sex is an important aspect of married life. Since a person’s sex life directly links to his/her perspective, culture, health etc, both partners have to have a discussion regarding this before marriage. If one of the partners request for information like health status or fertility status, it should be presented without any embarrassment.

Q. Should I prepare myself for my first night sex?
A. Yes. You should prepare your self for the first night sex in terms of knowledge. It could be regarding use of contraceptives, regarding hymen bleeding, and other psychological factors like control of anxiety etc.

Q. How do I go ahead on the first night sex?
A. No person is a master sex performer from the very first time itself.
Normally females will have anxiety regarding excessive bleeding, pain during penetration, and hesitancy to talk to their partners when they feel uneasy. Most of the men will find it hard to believe that due to anxiety, they will be finding it hard to get hard and penetrate the female vagina. Also few of them may ejaculate prematurely.
Therefore every thing cannot happen perfect at first time itself. When such things occur, the couples have to get cool and try things after some time. In a few days time it should be possible to do things in a controlled fashion.

Q. How do I learn to get more satisfaction from sex?
A. Satisfaction from sex is obtained when both the partners reach orgasm at least once during every sexual intercourse. Each partner has to learn how to arouse the other partner by observing and counseling him/her during the intercourse that, when he/she felt good, when he/she felt aroused etc. Also reading some stuff regarding the same will help a lot. Things can be made more playful if the partners play different sexual positions and arousal methods. Proper use of contraceptives can also increase satisfaction during intercourse. Personal cleanliness plays an important aspect for a good sexual intercourse. Myth and misconceptions should be made clear by counseling with a doctor or a suitable person.

Q. When should one see a doctor?
A. One should see a doctor when pain, irritation, bleading or any un-natural things continue in either of the partners. Also if things like premature ejuculation continue for a long time, one has to consult a doctor.